Dating girl troubled past
I woke up this morning and I started sobbing uncontrollably. I was about to say "ex BF" but we never really dated at all. But sometimes I still cry because of the abuse I endured with someone I used to date in the past. I felt rather scared and I felt like throwing up because I was nervous; I was so tense I couldn't even "get it in". However nothing stopped him from hurting or taking advantage of me. Occasionally, I would develop an aversion to taste. I have a real boyfriend now but I'm not sure if I should tell him the details. If I tell him, I suspect maybe he will think strangely of me, even though I know he's not like that. I was so young and innocent, I didn't have any experience but I was also very wise. He has a GF now which is great, I don't feel anything towards that. The deal with dating a hot girl is she knows she is hot, and she will always think she is hot and can use her looks for just about anything.
Deny it all you want, there are plenty of people in the world that will only date someone because they are hot. You are blinded by her looks and all the stares you guys get when you are together that you cannot see past the idea that she may not be the right person for you.As if dating was not hard enough, men seem to be drawn to women who are socially considered gorgeous.Now, it is not known specifically what constitutes someone as gorgeous but the same few features are usually involved; a banging body, long hair (according to Patty Stanger) and the ultimate key to the puzzle: someone who is wanted by many, many, many men.Having a hot girlfriend can be more trouble than it is worth, especially when dealing with things like other guys (including your friends) trying to steal your girl like she is some kind of conquest, but also having to deal with a girl whose head may be so blown up that on top of treating you like crap, she expects you to fund her lifestyle that normally includes going out, drinking, partying and shopping.The cons seem to outweigh the pros when dating a pretty girl, and it is a struggle that no one expects until it happens to them.
When you finally land that gorgeous girl all seems right in the world, nothing could go wrong but oh, wait; now you have to maintain her.